Chapter 12

How To Live Your Purpose and Give Women What They Really Want

For this chapter of Hard Times Create Strong Men, Stefan Aarnio has eight amazing rules to live your own purpose and give women what they really want. Viktor Frankl says that “life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose”.

Contrary to the new popular narratives, gender homogenization is unfavorable with men and women when it comes to two things: sex and attractions. In spite of your woman’s requests, you better stick to your purpose, and that must be your work. Women are not liars, however, they don’t say what they really want. Your woman wants to see the “killer” in you, she wants to see you lead your tribe, and usually, the alpha male leader must make life-and-death decisions. That’s what she wants to see in you. From power, war, and seduction to mastery on their men, women want to exchange their power, sexual and reproductive power in exchange for real power in the real world. 

“Women want the decision of the man to protect her so that she can relax into the feminine. She does not want to be an equal-voting-decision-making partner as our society would now suggest.”

Hard times create strong men, and weak men create hard times. It is the inevitable cycle of life where great empires are built and destroyed. Unfortunately, millennials are currently living in the era of weak men that drown in ephemeral pleasure and limited desires. However, strength and greatness are determined by one’s self, and so this is the best time to seize everything you have ever wanted!